• For Old Time's Sake
    Direct Answers - Column for the week of August 19, 2002I am currently going through a divorce, and we've been negotiating the terms of the settlement for a year and a half without agreement. I have started a relationship with another woman, but I'm i.... read more »
  • A Brand New Year To Live
    Have you ever started a new year with a New Years resolution? I think many of us have, whether it is to be nicer to family, to be a better friend, co-worker, or even to start that long-awaited diet. Have you ever noticed by the 3rd week or so, you ju.... read more »
  • Goals - If You Don't Know What You Want, Then How Are You Going to Get It?
    Recently, I spoke with a client who wanted me to do a workshop at an upcoming conference. I offer a number of different talks, so I asked her what the focus of the meeting was in order to be able to suggest a relevant topic. She said that although th.... read more »
  • How to Eat an Elephant
    I recently returned from a wonderful vacation in the U.S. I spent some time with my family, visited some friends, and spent three weeks in Alaska, climbing Mt. McKinley. Mt. McKinley, or Denali, is the highest mountain in North America. Before I star.... read more »
  • The Art of Wastebasketry
    Are your filing cabinets stuffed so full that its difficult to retrieve and file papers? If youre like 80% of the people in the audiences to whom I speak, your answer is Yes. Are there things in your filing cabinet you could probably throw out? Most .... read more »
  • Playing With Mindfulness: Sneaking In The Back Door
    I often meet people who say things like, "I've been working on mindfulness for over twenty years."My response is always this: "Oh, you poor thing! Have you tried *playing* with mindfulness? It's very effective, and much more fun!"They tend to look at.... read more »
  • Any Woman Can Become a Modern Goddess and Attract Good Things With Ease
    The Great Goddess may be an ancient echo in the collective unconscious of the human race, but her legacy still lives in every woman. Today's woman is rediscovering her inherent female strengths and creating a new model of feminine power: the Modern G.... read more »
  • Why You Keep Being Unsuccessful When It Comes To Women
    Think about this:* When has a woman last cuddled up to you?* Recently, have you kissed a woman that was considered beautiful?* Have you walked up to a woman at a bar, and gotten her number within 3 minutes?* When was the last time a beautiful woman c.... read more »
  • Doing MY Thing, Minding MY Own Business
    Does worrying about what others think of you, or what you are doing cause you anxiety and sleepless nights? Do you tailor your actions or behavior to the opinions of others? If so, then have I found a book title for you! I have not read the book by T.... read more »
  • Take the Red Pill
    In my last post, I mentioned that I believe theres some kind of linkage between thought and reality that bypasses direct action. In this post Id like to clarify what I mean by that and why I believe this.First of all, recognize that this is a field i.... read more »